21 January 2013

Reasons Why Owning is Different than Renting



  • Repairs are your own dang problem, buddy. 
  • Holy crap, that means you have to learn how to fix things.
  • Houses typically have way more personality than apartments. (I know there are exceptions on both sides, but still...most of the apartments I've been in have been soul-sucking drab cardboard boxes.)
  • Pride. You have to really want to own a house to buy a house. Which means it's a choice. Which means it's practically a part of you. Which means you want your house to face the masses with the same panache that you bring every day.




  • If home-owning demonstrates pride, it means you are also giving up the wayfaring wanderlusty attitude that comes with renting. Not that you will move out when your lease is up. But you could. You could move to Paris if you wanted to. Or SoCal. Or anywhere. I'm afraid my move to Paris will have to be on hold for while, because a house means I'm here for a long time. Some might think of commitment as lame. I think of it more like an epic poem. Sure, it's the same poet for a long time, but if you pick the right person, they have a lot of good stuff to say. Just like the SK and I have plenty more conversations and private jokes to be had. My house has plenty to say.




  • A renter can get by with a couch and a mattress - probably not even on a bed frame. That's totally cool when you rent, because who cares? The old stuff was too hard to lug from Paris, so you were just going to hit up Ikea at some point, but haven't had time yet. A house without furniture is just sad. Why yes, we've been living here for six months, why? Oh that...well, I tried unpacking, but nothing fits like it should, so the cardboard boxes are holding my socks. They stack better. *womp womp sad trombone sound*
  • Storage Storage STORAAAAGE! (did you know that the square footage of a house does not include the basement, attic, porches or garage? So the space you actually get is used differently than is listed, as opposed to an apartment, where you are pretty much stuck with doing everything in the listed square footage. You probably knew that. I did, technically, I just never thought about it)
  • A yard. With grass. And flowers. And room to play with the pup. It's absolutely amazing. 

Any others you can think of? 
Cheers!
Daisy

2 comments:

beth said...

I've been in my house for two entire weeks - what I'm finding is that all the decisions seem more important (and therefore more stressful). Whereas before I could imagine just taking the free cheapo bed/box spring from a friend for the guest room, now I feel like that means I will have the cheapo thing FOREVER and maybe I should just hold off and see if I can do better? I'm usually decisive so this stuff is killing me.

I'm also trying to furnish the place with lots of sleeping spots for guests, but also with an eye to doing a home exchange in the future - the more places for people to sleep, the more likely I can swap... at least that's my theory.

Rainy Daisy said...

It's so true! Maybe that's why it feels like it's taking forever to furnish the place. I don't want free/cheap stuff taking up space forever, so I don't get anything at all.

and YES, I am super psyched to have guest space too....for the same reason :)

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